Friday, 7 August 2015

Should I start flaunting my man on social media?

A lot of us get hit on by strangers everyday on Instagram. Its cray cray!!! Not just women but men too. Which is a great thing I guess and a bit flattering but what do you do when it gets a lil too much. See more after the cut


How do you reduce these lovely "toasters "😃 to the lowest minimum.
Do they reduce when you start flaunting or putting your relationship out there or some of these people can't just be bothered? Let's discuss guys.

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    1. Flaunting your man doesn't deter anyone from hitting on you.

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    2. Flaunting your man doesn't deter anyone from hitting on you.

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    3. Hmmmm. Laura u said it all but I must confess dat it depends on individual perception and choice.

      So to me, just b sincere wit every guy dat comes ur way and let them know u aren't interested in any r/ship wit them rather than d public display of ur r/ship.

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    4. Wow! Laura, dis is very commendable and adorable!! Definitely u wil go places and perform above expectations!!!

      God abundantly bless u and enlarge ur coast frm grace to grace. Thumbs up and more power to ur elbows.

      Least I forget to say, Laura looks Bold, Brave and Beautiful. Its well wit her soul and I wish her all d best!

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    5. Not in support.
      ~D great anonymous!

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    6. Even the married ones still get hit on, so flaunting can't help.

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    7. Nor try am ooo cos na so so witches nd wizard full social media

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  2. They want you even more when you start flaunting your relationship lol

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    1. Wow! Laura, dis is very commendable and adorable!! Definitely u wil go places and perform above expectations!!!

      God abundantly bless u and enlarge ur coast frm grace to grace. Thumbs up and more power to ur elbows.

      Least I forget to say, Laura looks Bold, Brave and Beautiful. Its well wit her soul and I wish her all d best!

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    2. Do you have a blog? You should start one asap.. Trust me , you would get a alot of views daily

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  3. Some people don't care whether u flaunt ur relationship or not they still bother u. Flaunting ur relationship isn't the best I tell u

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    1. Nothing much to be said abt this topic.....the only thing is to keep rejecting them mostly for the ladies, when u flaunt ur relationship admirers get the opportunity to compare and contrast

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    2. Flaunt him oooo babe no time pls....

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    3. Flaunt him oooo babe no time pls....

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    4. Flaunt him oooo babe no time pls....

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  4. I guess even when u start flaunting him/her it is then that they 'dig deep' into dt spouse life, find or bring out his faults, rubs it in ur face nd tell u they can be better dan dt person.. For me it's a matter of choice u can choose to flaunt nd u cn choose not to as it doesn't reduce or increase toasters' even married ppl dey gt toasters

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    1. It's worse wen u flaunt ur partner cos ppll willl want it to end!

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  5. I'll prefer keeping my relationship out of social media

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  6. Oga madam let them keep toasting an flattering ooo don't flaunt ur bae on social media so you can have a peaceful personal life those who have being flaunting what have they gained

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  7. Oga madam let them keep toasting an flattering ooo don't flaunt ur bae on social media so you can have a peaceful personal life those who have being flaunting what have they gained

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    1. Good question. And what if you guys break up? Will you flaunt the next one? Then people will start counting for you, to me flaunting is not necessary to avoid 'eeyaah'.

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    2. Good question. And what if you guys break up? Will you flaunt the next one? Then people will start counting for you, to me flaunting is not necessary to avoid 'eeyaah'.

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  8. I once had a post on this same topic on my blog.. My opinion is a no no..



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  9. Tasty people would always be tasty. So whether you flaunt your man all over your page or not it don't change nothing. Just so you know. They would still come after you. So my best advice is enjoy the attention, look at them like your fans and just enjoy. #carolesayso
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  10. Ur relationship status doesn't stp men from hitting on u...do ur thing girl

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  11. Relationship status should be private. . U beautiful dats y we all love u .

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  12. Odiegwu! its worse when you start flaunting your man. The best thing is to ignore them because the moment you reply to one, Ibago nsogbu! A mann who wants to 'toast' for real knows social medium is not a medium.

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  13. Flaunting my man on a social media is a no no for me.And some dude don't even care about ones relationship status,dey will still chase n bother ones life.

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  14. nope. Laura keep it a Secret.....

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  15. Lol if you like toast me from now till tomorrow, i will only read your message n ignore,i hardly reply DM'S or facebook messages as far as u don't. V my fone number...

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  16. If you flaunt or you don't. If you are married or not, men will still chase you. Dry don use am do am. Woman wrapper

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  17. Private life should be kept off social media

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  18. Even married women get all those stuff everyday on IG, my advice is work with ur heart , if u r comfortable with it why not but if not dnt bother flaunting

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  19. Until he puts a ring on it best keep it private is my take on it. Even then don't over do it. It will end in praise.

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  20. Well personally I won't, flaunting ur relationship over exposes it to too many unwanted opinion and besides guys always chase what they can't have seeing that they are hunters hence showing that u are unavailable will make them chase u the more. My one kobo. Debee

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  21. bestie_diamonds7 August 2015 at 17:42

    If you can handle it flaunt it if you can't please don't.
    A lot of negative things comes with flaunting your relationship on social media. Once in awhile i put up mine on social media but i don't do too much of it.

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  22. Make it private till he puts a ring on it

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  23. Pls ur personal life private pls n wen u re ready 4 being 2geda 4 eva den u flaut him.

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  25. Pls ur personal life private pls n wen u re ready 4 being 2geda 4 eva den u flaut him.

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  26. Laura is this not child abuse? You are way older than this guy o

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    1. That's Laura's junior brother, even if he's not, my dear it's none of your business, try and stay outta people's private life,no hate darling, just an advice...

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  27. Keep ur Man outta d media! Love ur brows

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  28. To me flaunting ur relationship aren't that bad. But to much of every thing is bad. CJ LEE

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  29. Her brother joor......."Afraid" no go let her flaunt her man.......girls with octopus' tentacles will snatch him

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  30. U should Keep him Private oo Laura

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  31. Laura stop bleaching mbok. I wouldn't try flaunting someone who is not my hubby. Nah. Guys are not worth it

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  32. Different strokes for different folks,I'll say whatever rocks ur boat.

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  33. If you like flaunt, display your man, showcase your man, am not scared of him, I will tell you things, treat you nice and make u feel like you are in the wrong place with him, and know with me is where you should be

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  34. Mine is gonnaa be so simple,if u knw u're proud of him/her,why nt flaunt is,if u gat it,flaunt it mehn.let the haters keep hating

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  35. Mine is gonnaa be so simple,if u knw u're proud of him/her,why nt flaunt is,if u gat it,flaunt it mehn.let the haters keep hating

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  36. You look good sweety. Just go ahead and groove on, you're always blessed. Please contact me on Twitter DM @doronize. I think we can do better *wink*

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  38. Hook me up with ur sister

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  39. My niccur, these 'toasters' just can't be bothered Mehn , absolutely nothing should push you to flaunt your man on social media except you really just want to and about curbing these admirers , keep em coming , I love em , Lol

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  41. If u want u can flaunt your man dats your choice

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  42. I thought this was a fashion blog? *sideeye* ... ...

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  43. Lol Laura nd Linda don hold me for work b dat

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  44. It should be private pls........flaunting it on social media doesn't pay

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  45. It should be private pls........flaunting it on social media doesn't pay

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  46. You can flaunt your man after he walk you down the aisle.

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  47. Your relationship should at least be private until he finallygot married to you, for now just flaunt ur fashion

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  49. Flaunting your man doest might reduce but certainly not bring to a full stop the attention of your lovely "toasters".
    Kudos sis.

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  50. Not good at flaunting my boo, not that i don't like it but can only do it to my hubby. Flaunting ur boo to me can't reduce toasters cos they know that you are still single. The only time it reduces is when they see you are taken.

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  51. Wetin concern we and ur guy? U no see how ur big sis dey behave? Boy friend u just disappoint urself

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  52. I for one will love to see your man. Side eyes.

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  53. DISCUSS she said.. #winks
    Dont see her replying Yall though #Laughing

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