Monday, 31 August 2015

Honest Opinion needed by Laura Ikeji


Some of you have been complaining about how boring it can be up here , you guys want me to spice it up, you want me to critique some of the people I feature here sometimes, you want some ginger!!! Hehe. I understand guys, I perfectly do. I'm not a boring person neither do I want my blog to be dry but...

I am not a critic, I don't know how to tell people that what they are wearing isn't nice or fashion worthy, infact I dislike to make people feel bad.
I've been critisized so much in my life about everything , I know how it feels to be critisized, not a great feeling guys. Yes, it's interesting for some of you guys but it isn't for the people who re being talked or written about.

What is fashion, who is fashionable, what is the definition of a stylish person, style is different for all of us, what you like might not be what I like, what you see as appropriate might not be appropriate after all. It's just complicated .

I need fashion critics/writers who can do that , I can't , at least not now. I can't handle it.

Ok guys, story don finish.
Let me know what else you want to see on the blog, and I'll be glad to add it or stop it.
God bless you all
Osheyyyyy!!!

51 comments:

  1. I can do it for you and for free. I can be very objective and i'm a nobody, so i'm the best for the job. Email me if you're interested.

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    1. Babe if u lyk do ur bestest e nor go eva good enof for some pple...do u best,pray and relax...no killing body cos of blog...I dey ur back too

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    2. You can't run a fashion blog and not be a critic, not possible! So it's either you learn how to criticize constructively or you employ someone that can do that. More so, I think you should blog about fashion in its totality. C'mon bring ur IG energy to your blog joor.

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    3. happy new month Laura!!!
      you cannot please everyone, in one way or the other people will always complain is a must. and u cannot really make it by people's advice, some advice and opinion are success killers itself. though sometimes u listen to it and communicate with the audience too.

      people will always criticize you, if not it simply means you are not doing anything that is good at all. so just prepared your mind for that and on how to handle it, so that it won't discourage you from whatever you are doing.

      Laura, you cannot give out what you don't have. you are a very ambitious young lady and you can succeed if you want to and can also fail if you want to. that's is 100% guarantee.

      if you truly need advice on how to succeed, very good because i know where i can direct you to and the place is not really far from from.
      the address is the Holy Bible: James 1:5 and it is written If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask God , that giveth to all men librally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.

      God bless you and enrich you with His wisdom, knowledge and understanding as you locate that Address and believe, you shall never be stranded in Jesus' Name. Amen.

      hear this Laura, be still, the more you listen the smarter you get. in order to succeed you must FIRST BELIEVE that you CAN. Laura you can do it, just believe.
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    4. You should also talk about different styles for different body physique . Pls bring in native designs too, your blog should embrace our African culture.

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    1. You look absolutely stunning in that picture.

      Is this the making of fashion police: Blog edition (Ng version 1.0)?

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  3. I think u should write more,u are interesting and people want to read what u have to say,after the captions,do a little write up.not too long,just something to ease up on,and make people flow

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  4. Awwww Laura Mai boo. Don't sad. Don't cry. And don't stop.

    Just tell them to add a belt here or drop this shoe and that. You don't need to be as critical as Wendy Williams or etcetera. Actually you are supposed to be honest and harsh but Nigerians don't like criticism at all. They will jus label you a hater. You are a beta person sha. I like your style dear.

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  5. Sorry sweetheart in as much as you don't wanna hurt people's feelings, sometimes criticism makes people get better. Moreso you can't run a fashion blog and just approve everything people wear, your readers are interested in your sincere opinion and not how the people feel. Also take Iphy's advise. Uyee Banté.

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  6. Entertainment news but not gossip

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  7. I want to see hair styles, how to stay curvy, skin care etc

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    1. Exactly my tots! Trendy hairstyles for diffrent shapes of heads, colors for diff skin types and complexion, kind of dresses for different kinds of body figures and of course, make up and cosmetics!

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  8. Utazi Amaka u right.. Adding hair criticism and skin care awareness will do a lot good. I love u laura😀😀

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  9. Upload pics without makeup,will luv to see u natural.luv u always laura!!

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  10. Your writing sef alone na CASTING .Start with writing proper English and stop making your blog appear overly RAZZ.You can employ the services of good writers cos clearly you aint one.

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  11. Blog on hair styles, weaves, make ups, foot wears,

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  12. Blog on hair styles, weaves, make ups, foot wears,

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  13. yes.you definitely need fashion writers because you are too emotional and attached. there is no way you'll own a fashion blog and not critic and you do critic,just not in the conventional way. Youve also neglected other areas that make up fashion and focused on solely clothes. Fashion starts from the naked person(figure and all) to the clothed person. Also,let me ask,are you sticking to only naija fashion? because pictures from the just concluded VMA should be here.

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  14. truthfully too, people will get bored in a short while if you dont come all out with the blog.You're obviously walking on eggshells,trying to play safe.Safe gets boring

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  15. I really do not like critics either...

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  16. Been a Critic Aint bad, Constructive Criticism Helps..
    How does one write you Laura..Email, Mobile?

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  17. -Firstly stop putting up all these fashion backward women. You know your style, put up women who are similar to you.
    -You don't have to criticise at all, not necessary.
    -Start deleting some particular comments, all those people that love insulting themselves, it's wrong . bad energy.
    -Put up at least 5 posts per day.
    -Bring all your Instagram energy her.

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  18. Laura dear,
    U need to start blogging about everything fashion. Both weaves, braids, style of weaves hats, shoes clothes english n trad. Diff cultures n dia style. Dis r plenty tinz dt has to do with fashion.
    Yes u nid to critize, constructively. Dia z a diff btwn insult n criticism.
    Employ writers.. Soon! (U cn employ me thou)
    Visit foriegn magz bring dia fashion stories
    Introduces a section wia u show fashion dos n donts
    Teach how dress to diff ocassions.
    How to combine colours. What works for diff skin colours. Dia r plenty tinz too u can do. If u need more ideas email me.

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  19. Hi sis am d guy who commented on ur instag yesterday.Am so glad u want to spice things up i believe i can be honest and give constructive criticism without being rude.Am not in the fashion biz but i believe i have fashion taste and sense so i can dish out advise to both guys and girls if u feel we can work something out my mail posh22278@gmail.com

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  20. Hi sis am d guy who commented on ur instag yesterday.Am so glad u want to spice things up i believe i can be honest and give constructive criticism without being rude.Am not in the fashion biz but i believe i have fashion taste and sense so i can dish out advise to both guys and girls if u feel we can work something out my mail posh22278@gmail.com

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  21. Abeg nor mind people mouth:am here for u. #yougogal

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  22. Abeg nor mind people mouth:am here for u. #yougogal

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  23. Hey Laura, I'm ur die hard fan on IG @jeflops. You are doing well, I like ur energy. You inspire & motivate me.
    However, I've few suggestions:
    1. Makeup - give tips on makeup application, the dif looks for events etc
    2. Fashion tips - what to & not to wear dif events/places, how to rock & re-rock, types of clothes for all shapes & sizes etc
    3. Beauty - Acne & pimple treatment, how to ve a glowing skin, beauty dos & donts etc
    4. How to - this can be a special edition e.g how to walk on a 6inches heels (which is d hardest thg for some ladies like me)
    You can be showcasing ankara styles here too, dif traditional wears.
    And pls don't stop posting pictures of fashionistas here, I'm learning from them as I'm learning from you.
    Also note that some of us work in an institution where ladies don't wear trousers & tight dresses (eg Teachers). We (teachers) need fashion tips too. Lol

    Lastly, Laura Laura Laura may God bless & prosper you. I wish to see you someday. Go girl, u ve got the spirit.

    Much love
    Xoxo

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  24. Dats a good nice..character-wise..Pls visit my blog,www.Styleupwithkim.com

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  25. Let me sincere with you to be a fashion blogger you av to be frank sometimes, y wud someone dress like a clown around you and you won't be able to tell the person to improve his or her dressing then u ain't even helpin d person don't you see the likes of late Jonah Rivers and are co-presenters they were not bias wen it comes to that even to top celebrities. Y wud someone dress like a clown and you post dem here as 'look of the day' or what do u call it no offense buh rite now I need to be harsh, wen Jonah was alive I neva miss fashion police for anytin, I think naija stylists av come up wt such programme too which is gud. except u don't want pple to be as lovely as u are wt clothed then I don't know y u won't be able to tel them 'd shoe is wrong' dos color do not blend' and so on. Mehn my fingers hurt wish to type more buh....

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  26. U can't please everybody,abeg if u need model wa go dey wear d clothe for u I dey

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  27. For you to succeed in this kind of business, you need to have a thick skin as in welcome both bad and good mouth like me not hiding under anonymous replying comments you don't like. If you know the kind of insult and mouth lashing linda receive everyday that means you can't stand but people still loves and appreciate her. I can't stay one minute without opening Lib that's how crazy I am about your sis blog . I visit there always just to laugh and read comments. So please whatever anybody say to you, don't take it personal. Life na jeje. Make the blog more fun and watch what happens before the end of the year. I love you sweetheart and forgive my bad mouth atimes “MBOK”

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  28. Laura, firstly i really want to commend your effort so far. I can volunteer my self to write for you. Also, am an IT expert, am really willing to join your IT team, i can develop website and perfectly maintain blogs. I really hope to work with you.

    Thanks,

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  29. Hehehe hire me,i'd constructively critique for you,send you content ideas and stuff at no cost at all. Meanwhile,and this is just an idea,try to spread out. Reach the grassroot readers..not everyone can afford them glossy blazer thingies and louboutins..some people just wanna see regular clothing ideas that are also affordable ideas not just one they can admire on laura's blog knowing it won't reach their hand ever. Diversify..hair styles,makeup ideas,skin matters and colour tones for the right skin shades. You have to grow a thick skin and please master the art of sarcasm lol yeah polite shading also works well in the blogosphere,ask your sister. Best of luck beautiful..

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  30. Critic is part of fashion bloggers like it or not. Been a fashion blogger is like been a mentor, a teacher, and an inspiration to ur audience or ur readers ok. Sometimes u kinda like post a pix of someone wearing a designers clothing bt wit wrong combination of either shoes or something else then saying dis combination is a nah, instead of dis he or she should hv wear it like dis or wit dis. Is kinda like u r teaching ur readers hw to wear it better, dat is basically d core work of a fashion blogger. I'll refer u to a fashion bloggers program on E entertainment tv. A fashion blogger can't do his or her work in isolation ok. It must be all encompassing as in holistically ok. Like for example, telling ur readers d right type of food to eat to keep fit and to hv a good shape cause sometime is nt abt d clothes bt our body. And much more ma dear... I know u can do it and do it good.

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  31. Laura i have this jump suit but dark blue...how am i gonna send u my picture lets know who rocks it better...lol

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  32. Laura dear, u have a good dress sense. I love dis ur hair so much. U rock but pls a fashion blog with objective criticism without infringing on the rights on pple would definitely inform, entertain and teach everyone more.

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  33. Hey Laura, you're doing a good job. I've never commented on any of your posts but I will scribble something today. Truth is fashion goes beyond the outward look which is actually the finished product. Fashion starts from the choice of lingerie (pants, bras, under wear) for ladies and then boxers, singles, inner vests for men. This aspect of fashion is over looked Becos it is underneath, and people don't pay attention to it but believe me, most times it ruins the outward statement. Imagine wearing the wrong bra or pant underneath a dress, skirt, pants....dats a complete mess! Or a guy is wearing an inner vest and the shoulder sleeve of the vest is very visible from whatever he is wearing on d outside, and God help him, the vest sef don turn from "I was once. White" LOL! What I'm saying in essence is, if you wanna spice it up in here you can also talk about the right under clothes for the right statement. If u know u will keep digging your hands into ur ass to pull out ur "g-strings" biko stick to the tissue pants, dat are seamless and have no lines at the edges......you know!!

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  34. Hey Laura, you're doing a good job. I've never commented on any of your posts but I will scribble something today. Truth is fashion goes beyond the outward look which is actually the finished product. Fashion starts from the choice of lingerie (pants, bras, under wear) for ladies and then boxers, singles, inner vests for men. This aspect of fashion is over looked Becos it is underneath, and people don't pay attention to it but believe me, most times it ruins the outward statement. Imagine wearing the wrong bra or pant underneath a dress, skirt, pants....dats a complete mess! Or a guy is wearing an inner vest and the shoulder sleeve of the vest is very visible from whatever he is wearing on d outside, and God help him, the vest sef don turn from "I was once. White" LOL! What I'm saying in essence is, if you wanna spice it up in here you can also talk about the right under clothes for the right statement. If u know u will keep digging your hands into ur ass to pull out ur "g-strings" biko stick to the tissue pants, dat are seamless and have no lines at the edges......you know!!

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  35. Gosh!bring ugly and tacky clothes to justice!Please make up goes with good fAshion too!regular events like weddings!shuld b featured cos weddings r every sat and that's where you see great fashion!talk abt. Great accessories,shoes hairdos!urrrrrrrrgh. Many things You can do!

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  36. A few suggestions as a fashion blogger myself..
    You can write on beauty, motivation stuffs, about PR, social media and all. First of all, you have to decide what kind of blog you want. Do you want a personal blog or you want a general fashion blog? What is your goal?

    Tega Enai
    www.tegaenai.com
    xoxo..

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